Thursday, April 30, 2015

These are my Goals


This year will be MY year...

I WILL be a healthier and possibly leaner version of me!

I WILL look after my appearance more.

I WILL find security for my finances and mental health.

And the most important...

I WILL finally get custody of my daughter rubber stamped.

To do these things i need to do:

Health:
  • Eat a balanced and healthy diet (yest i call it a diet - i no longer see diet as a dirty word.)
  • Exercise 3+ days a week (I've signed up to a Gym/pool but it doesn't open till July)
  • Drink 2-3ltrs of water a day.
Appearance:
  • I am getting laser treatment because i can grow a full beard if i let it grow (yes its a patchy teenage porno beard but that's not the point)
  • Getting my teeth cleaned every 6 months (hurts more then a filling and i get those without anesthetic if they are small so i have a high pain tolerance)
  • Going to wash my pimple prone skin and exfoliate properly (not once every blue moon when Venus is in Saturn's shadow like i currently do) Yes i know i don't girly well.
  • Grow out my hair (yes it looks long enough in the photo but I've always wanted bum length hair and I've always dyed it and wreaked my hair (18 months ago i got it cut as short as possible to cut off the damaged hair from a bleach job gone wrong from a woman who had no clue)
 Finances:
  • Mainly just not buy sooo much crap that i don't need 
  • Sell off clothes that still have their price tag on that I've never and will probable never wear.
  • Pay off credit card that i should never have gotten 
  • Find out my credit score thingie and find out how to make it neutral if not positive. 
Mental health:
  • I will be regularly writing on here to keep focus on my goals
  • keep house better (better environment means better health)
  • Work on sleep and relaxation
  • Take baths, spend time with friends and do all those little things i never have time for.
  • Have breaks from my child to recharge and work on being a better mum
Custody:
  • Write parenting plan
  • Meet with my lawyers to make sure i am asking/ doing the right things
  • Wait and see what my ex wants and try to find a happy compromise.
I think that is a lot of things to do but at the same time many are either small or out of my control at the end of the day I've got to try to do my best and hopefully it's enough to get a outcome that works for everyone.

Cheers

Skye

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